Navigating Your Divorce: Collaboration, Mediation, or Litigation?

Embarking upon a divorce journey? Whatever the circumstances that led you down this path, you are now on a complex and emotional ride, with important decisions, turns, and stops along the way.

Understanding your options and choosing the right approach can empower you to proceed with dignity and confidence.

Collaboration is possible. Some couples are able to collaborate and decide the how, when, and what they will separate. This is a true “uncontested” divorce. Some couples need assistance in dividing their rights and responsibilities, and choose to use attorneys trained to facilitate productive discussions and reach a mutually beneficial agreement. The goal is to reach a resolution outside of court, maintaining control over the outcome. It is important that each party selects an attorney trained in the collaborative process.

Mediation is a required step if you and your spouse are unable to come to a complete agreement. This involves a neutral third-party trained to facilitate the discussion, find common ground, and draft a legally binding agreement. Mediation allows you to participate in the decision-making process and include issues not typically resolved by litigation.

Both collaboration and mediation require voluntary participation. If your spouse is not the negotiating type, litigation may be your best and only option. It is essential to have an experienced attorney who understands the local system by your side guiding you through the complexities of the court process. Skilled litigators explain your risks and rewards, provide you with objective advice, and fiercely advocate for you both in and out of the courtroom.

No matter whether you collaborate, mediate, or litigate, always remember that you are the true expert in your own life. The right attorney for you will support, empower, and provide clarity as you make these important decisions for you and your family.